In Praise of Losing Things
Nothing to grieve.
since they are only things,
but we needed them
to lock our doors
or prove to strangers
we are who we claim
to be. Those real-life synecdoches,
not truly lost, we may
just never see them again.
A romantic might say,
they are waiting
to be found—
under cushions, purloined
upon table cloth daffodils
or riding the train to Coney Island
again. Unaware they have strayed,
more innocent than children
who follow clowns down midways.
Have you checked all your pockets?
she asks as though you were a novice
at loss. As though you hadn’t
like a teenage lover
riffled clothes all night
till your reversed pockets
flop. You ransacked your home
like you were stealing
from yourself. Unveiling
things you had long stopped
looking for. It turns out,
there are always new losses
to be found. At last,
she asks the worst question of all
for the seeker of lost things:
Where was the last place
you remember having them?
with such concern, as if the loss
were her own. Your frustration
is misplaced, and the advice to retrace
your steps, misleading. She just means,
How is it
you could be
so careless?